Monday, 4 December 2017

Chats and meet-ups:

Many of you send me tons of emails, chat requests, comments to my content on social media, all trying to chat, meet up...etc; some are rude, others super nice....

The Media and Internet unfortunately conditioned people in a way making them narrow minded and oblivious to the obvious. I'm writing this as a condensed article about me.

I'm not looking for boyfriends, lovers or husbands
I'm not single, I have a boyfriend. We've been together since high school and I'm ~40 years old so I've been with him for a long time. We love each other beyond what words can convey.

I'm not a paid model and I don't care for followers/subscribers, or likes to my content
I'm not your average Internet model. I do what I do online because I'm expanding my sexuality and experiences. I'm not online to cater to your fantasies. If you happen to enjoy my content then power to you. However, I'm not interested to hear your criticisms or opinions be it constructive or otherwise. Just enjoy my content and if you have something nice to say I'd love to hear it! Sweet comments are always appreciated.

Don't believe anything I post online! It's nothing but stupid fantasies I play-out; I'm not like that in real life.
All my postings online be it family oriented Facebook or pornographic PornHub, it's all but stupid fantasies I play out, a moment fling nothing more. I'm nothing like that in real life! My modo is that if I'm not hurting anyone, not forcing my ways on others and that we live in a free society then what's the harm. If you like to learn about me I dedicated a non-fantasy blog (the real me) and it's ONLY at: AND and nowhere else!

If you do want to get my attention and chat with me
The internet is full of creeps and trolls, for this reason I want a verified picture of you consisting of non nude portrait picture of your face, holding a paper with my name and the days date “hand” written on it! So I know you are real! No exceptions to this rule and I'm not interested to hear why you need to be anonymous be it you're the president of the world or the king of the universe. Without a verified picture I will not acknowledge your existence!

Also a note worthy of mentioning, don't send me anything sexual in nature and make sure your avatar is not a stupid dick picture and your handle is not sexual or you'll be on my bad list for eternity and beyond! The first contact has to be friendly, non sexual and without demands or opinions. Pretend your mother is sitting with you in our meeting in the presence of children in a church! You get the picture? If you pass this stage and I deem you “normal” i.e. not media brainwashed uttering what the billion steeple message me everyday then I will acknowledge you and respond.

I repeat: I'm not paid model, I don't care about subscribers, likes or followers:
I have my own rules I live by and they are in sharp contrast of society preaching. I live by the moto of: if freedom truly exists and you want to live free then RESPECT, DIGNITY, SUCCESS, ACCEPTED...etc. Are nothing but society created shackles preventing you from being you and experiencing life uninhibited! I live my life my way without restrictions. However, I'm mindful of others and I don't force my views and way of thinking on anyone. I follow my heart and people's opinions are not needed.

Sexual encounters, escorting, sugaring and casual sex partners

I felt the need to write something about this subject since I have many followers and I don't want anyone to confuse fantasy with reality. Having multiple sex partners, doing escorting and gang bangs or regular porn is extremely dangerous! Some of today's diseases can spread with saliva (i.e kissing, licking..etc) or even touching (early stage non-visible skin rashes...etc). Even protected sex with tested people is not 100% safe! Someone could be an infectious carrier and won't show on tests until about 3 months have passed. For you to be 100% safe is to have all parties tested for “all” STD's and have them confined (i.e. no possibility of any sexual, drugs...etc encounters) and repeat the FULL STD testing after 3 months and if clear only then you can be sure you wont contract diseases from them.

You will always put yourself at risk when you get intimate with someone. Exploring your sexual fantasies with your trusted regular lover (i.e. boyfriend, husband..etc) is the best way.

Everyone knows I play wild online and the emphasis is “play” i.e. not real! And from what I observed, some guys love to have unprotected sex and some responded to my fake escort ads in which I offered bareback experiences. I was shocked to how many of these guys responded to my ads. Some had girlfriends and wives putting them at risk and spreading diseases.

In conclusion, do not confuse my sexual fake-play with reality! Having multiple sexual partners or casual sex especially unprotected sex is irresponsible and mathematically speaking the odds are greatly not in your favor. This is also one of the main reasons why me and my boyfriend do not swing, have open relationships or include sex partners in our sexuality. Instead, we play-out fantasies together and share it online for whoever wants to see and enjoy them.

Be safe, stay wild and kick the shit always KissRa style baby ;)

Sunday, 19 February 2017

My sexuality

My Sexuality and why I do the online stuff that I do?
I received many messages from Internet users who sent me their verified pictures (i.e. they are not anonymous) and few of them even sent me additional info about themselves. I answered each one of them off course but I thought this subject was not going away anytime soon. Therefore, I am writing this blog.
First off I'll begin to say that what I post online is nothing other than sexual fantasies I play out with very close friends I've known and trusted all my life! Some of these sexual plays are my actual fantasies, some I've done because I was dared to and other sexual plays I've posted online are just me being curious to experience the damn thing and nothing more but it doesn't mean I liked it. I do not chat/collaborate/perform with random anonymous people about any of these fantasies! in order for me to do that I'll have to be attracted to you intellectually beforehand, also I must know you for quite a long time (i.e. years not weeks);  To entice me on an intellectual level, sending me anonymous porn messages accompanied with dick pictures puts you in the idiot pile :)
How the fantasy plays out is very important to us in the group. We go great lengths to make it as real as possible from location to the set and the state it was at when we film or took pictures. The final result should be as realistic amateur shoot as possible hence you live the fantasy by making it a reality in a limited sense. Online you can be anything and anyone,  playing out these fantasies can be quite an experience if you do it right and you are not afraid to be online like myself.  
Now that I've shed light on the above, in real life I'm nothing like the porn content you see of me online. In fact, each of these pictures, videos...etc are nothing but past moments in time. Each a specific instance where we felt something fucked up and wanted to act up on it. Each is a long forgotten memory that's been satisfied and no longer enticing, hence no repetition.
I get bored quickly, I'm curious, easily infatuated with uniqueness, simplicity and honesty. Kindness to others goes a long way with me. Having empathy for living things not being racist and not engaging in politics all traits I like in a person. And off course being very nice to me seals the deal;)
Even with this blog, and all what I write on my web site saying all the online porn is bull shit I still get the majority of people seeing one of my online videos and responding in reflection to that video so I play a long not to kill their fantasy because living in fantasy has it's therapeutic qualities for both sides. However, when some do wake up from their fantasy and realize I'm not a real escort or I don't date guys for money to give them the GFE or I'm not a stripper in a sleazy joint sucking dick and getting drunk, disappointment sets in :)  I tell these guys well, I didn't want to burst your bubble so I played a long, but had you done your homework you would've realized fairly quickly that everything I post anywhere, with the exception of my web site and the blogs listed on my site; everything I post anywhere else is nothing but expended and long gone played out fantasies and it's all bull shit!
Am I going to keep shooting more content? No plans which means we are spontaneous. If the moment presents itself and we all feel the same way it will happen, otherwise bookmark my stuff and keep wanking to what you see haha. Remember, I don't shoot stuff to get you off, but if you happen to get off on the content I post then power to you ;)
Lastly, why post on different sites, why not just one? That's just me being courteous to you by categorizing my content so you can see what you like and avoid stuff that might gross you out. On my web site if you read the description under each site I post on you will know the type of content I post on there.
Hope this explains it to you and don't blame me if you read this blog and discover all your previous messages to me on porn sites were nothing but me playing along when I was bored ha ha :)
KissRa ;)