Monday, 4 December 2017

Chats and meet-ups:

Many of you send me tons of emails, chat requests, comments to my content on social media, all trying to chat, meet up...etc; some are rude, others super nice....

The Media and Internet unfortunately conditioned people in a way making them narrow minded and oblivious to the obvious. I'm writing this as a condensed article about me.

I'm not looking for boyfriends, lovers or husbands
I'm not single, I have a boyfriend. We've been together since high school and I'm ~40 years old so I've been with him for a long time. We love each other beyond what words can convey.

I'm not a paid model and I don't care for followers/subscribers, or likes to my content
I'm not your average Internet model. I do what I do online because I'm expanding my sexuality and experiences. I'm not online to cater to your fantasies. If you happen to enjoy my content then power to you. However, I'm not interested to hear your criticisms or opinions be it constructive or otherwise. Just enjoy my content and if you have something nice to say I'd love to hear it! Sweet comments are always appreciated.

Don't believe anything I post online! It's nothing but stupid fantasies I play-out; I'm not like that in real life.
All my postings online be it family oriented Facebook or pornographic PornHub, it's all but stupid fantasies I play out, a moment fling nothing more. I'm nothing like that in real life! My modo is that if I'm not hurting anyone, not forcing my ways on others and that we live in a free society then what's the harm. If you like to learn about me I dedicated a non-fantasy blog (the real me) and it's ONLY at: https://kissralynnkay.blogspot.ca/ AND http://CriesOfTheGoth.com and nowhere else!

If you do want to get my attention and chat with me
The internet is full of creeps and trolls, for this reason I want a verified picture of you consisting of non nude portrait picture of your face, holding a paper with my name and the days date “hand” written on it! So I know you are real! No exceptions to this rule and I'm not interested to hear why you need to be anonymous be it you're the president of the world or the king of the universe. Without a verified picture I will not acknowledge your existence!

Also a note worthy of mentioning, don't send me anything sexual in nature and make sure your avatar is not a stupid dick picture and your handle is not sexual or you'll be on my bad list for eternity and beyond! The first contact has to be friendly, non sexual and without demands or opinions. Pretend your mother is sitting with you in our meeting in the presence of children in a church! You get the picture? If you pass this stage and I deem you “normal” i.e. not media brainwashed uttering what the billion steeple message me everyday then I will acknowledge you and respond.

I repeat: I'm not paid model, I don't care about subscribers, likes or followers:
I have my own rules I live by and they are in sharp contrast of society preaching. I live by the moto of: if freedom truly exists and you want to live free then RESPECT, DIGNITY, SUCCESS, ACCEPTED...etc. Are nothing but society created shackles preventing you from being you and experiencing life uninhibited! I live my life my way without restrictions. However, I'm mindful of others and I don't force my views and way of thinking on anyone. I follow my heart and people's opinions are not needed.

Sexual encounters, escorting, sugaring and casual sex partners

I felt the need to write something about this subject since I have many followers and I don't want anyone to confuse fantasy with reality. Having multiple sex partners, doing escorting and gang bangs or regular porn is extremely dangerous! Some of today's diseases can spread with saliva (i.e kissing, licking..etc) or even touching (early stage non-visible skin rashes...etc). Even protected sex with tested people is not 100% safe! Someone could be an infectious carrier and won't show on tests until about 3 months have passed. For you to be 100% safe is to have all parties tested for “all” STD's and have them confined (i.e. no possibility of any sexual, drugs...etc encounters) and repeat the FULL STD testing after 3 months and if clear only then you can be sure you wont contract diseases from them.

You will always put yourself at risk when you get intimate with someone. Exploring your sexual fantasies with your trusted regular lover (i.e. boyfriend, husband..etc) is the best way.

Everyone knows I play wild online and the emphasis is “play” i.e. not real! And from what I observed, some guys love to have unprotected sex and some responded to my fake escort ads in which I offered bareback experiences. I was shocked to how many of these guys responded to my ads. Some had girlfriends and wives putting them at risk and spreading diseases.

In conclusion, do not confuse my sexual fake-play with reality! Having multiple sexual partners or casual sex especially unprotected sex is irresponsible and mathematically speaking the odds are greatly not in your favor. This is also one of the main reasons why me and my boyfriend do not swing, have open relationships or include sex partners in our sexuality. Instead, we play-out fantasies together and share it online for whoever wants to see and enjoy them.

Be safe, stay wild and kick the shit always KissRa style baby ;)