Thursday, 22 February 2018

The moon has acne scars and she's still beautiful

Be Beautiful And Love Yourself

Beauty is only skin deep, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. As the sayings go, external attractiveness has little to do with overall quality. What may appeal to one person may not to another. Also, there is beauty in the imperfection, one just has to see it.  Most people see beauty in how attractive something or someone looks on the external surface. I believe there is more to the true definition of beauty than meets the eye.

People usually never see beauty for the multitude of perspectives it can offer. Even when one looks at objects displayed in a  store window, the more fancy decor the better. But what if the objects in the window are just placed in a random way, would it still have the same appeal? I think yes.

If one thinks or pictures the moon, it has craters, white in color really plain and ordinary if you really think about it. But if one delves deeper than the surface would there be a form of beauty there to see?

Stars in space, clouds in the sky, the sun reflecting off a river or lake; perhaps animals walking in the forest or displays in a store window. All examples of beauty each on its own.

There is no clear way to define beauty, its really in the eye of the beholder. Also, it comes in a myriad of forms.

Now lastly, every person is their own worst critic. Most people don't see themselves as others see them, they usually see worse. Self perception is very diverse among people. It's important not to compare to others, if you really think about it you cannot have what someone else has and vice versa. Staying positive about one's situation helps, opportunities could begin to open. Try seeing the real beauty instead of the superficial.

Love yourself by doing something positive that you like, then you will exude positive vibes.

Monday, 19 February 2018

Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will!

Where does doubt come from? In the general sense of mind and thought. It's a feeling that nothing works out for a person and their life basically sucks the shit bag; no matter what they attempt to do. Often times erroneous comparisons are made with people they see in their life or online that achieved similar goals, but they feel they simply cannot measure up. They usually firmly believe and take to heart all the negativity from people around them. If you choose to pursue a goal and you end up facing obstacles self-doubt can manifest in your mind steering you away from achieving the intended goal. One must have incredible discipline and strong will to overcome obstacles. Live through the shit while you are on the way to the light. Reach greatness by not allowing the doubts to control your mind, perseverance is key to success.

Doubt essentially can be a real dream crusher and goal killer. Now, one might attribute life situations as a deterrent to accomplishing goals. Also, the thoughts develop in the mind, like “ oh, that's impossible I can't do it”. Keep in mind the achievement of making plausible dreams that more or less fit with one's cards of life a reality. Self doubt can be perceived as an excuse to remain in the rut or routine created by the individual, halting their progress in life.

Also, doubt should not be confused with failure the two are very dissimilar. Failure is generally trying to do something that may be new or familiar but, never achieving the desired or correct result. Doubt is thinking one is incapable of pursuing the task, due to a physical or mental challenge.

One must understand few basic facts: doubt will only become real if one projects and truly believes in it. Ultimately, it will lead to one's own demise or failure.

Dreams are just that unless the individual decides to make them reality. Remember, self doubt is nothing more than a belief that forms in the mind. It can only turn real if one focuses their energy.

Focus on a plausible dream make it a goal and pursue to the end without letting doubt take control and you lose out.